The attraction you feel every time this girl/guy is around is so
strong that it would put a magnet to shame! You want him/her to know that youre
interested but dont have the guts to just go up to them and say so for fear of
Or then, you arent even aware of it
but he/she and probably other observers
read the signals that spell out INTERESTED loud and clear.
If youre still clueless as to how and why
were talking about that
language that you probably havent been able to master or figure as yet
the Greek or Latin one
were referring to the one concerning your body!
Read on to learn the art of body language
mastering it though, would come with
so be alert and sensitive to the goings on around you.
Before we start, lets get this straight - when we say that you
are to observe his/her body language, we are not referring to their anatomy but to their
facial expressions, gestures, actions, etc
also remember, if they feel theyre being
scrutinized the results may not be accurate.
To find out if someone is interested, the best way to find out would
be by creating a situation and then make your next move according to the response that you
Theres this person youve been eyeing and are attracted to
and dont know whether the feeling is mutual? Well if you catch the person looking at you
time and again, you can be sure that something is brewing.
If you find that youre not the only one smiling or making
plenty eye contact, you can then try to strike up a conversation without wearing your heart on
You probably dream of gazing into the eyes of your crush, but please
note how they look at you. We know love is blind, but if you see them squinting at you or
peering through narrowed eyes dont fool yourself into thinking they are trying to get a
better look, they are probably looking at you with disapproval.
If you find him/her crossing your path more often than that black
cat, luck is definitely on your side.
The constant flow of giggles that her friends let out every time you
pass by is an indication too, just as much as when those friends of yours call out your name
every time she passes by.
If the two of you hang around together, you could test the waters by
touching their arm when you share a joke or when youre making a point. If they
dont seem to mind then youre on the right track. However if she shrugs your hand
off or moves away, then kindly take the hint.
Before you try dirty dancing like Patrick Swayze, check out your
partners body language. If he/she matches you step for step, youre dancing to the
right tune but if she prefers rubbing shoulders with the guy behind her
reached a dead end.
There are more subtle ways of telling if the object of your affection
is seriously interested. He/she might act weird around you or then behave very nervous.
Sometimes, them avoiding you could also show that theyre
sometimes, especially if they happen to be the shy types.
youve already managed to hook them up and want to go a step further, dont grab
them simply because you want to, instead make sure that they are responsive to your advances.
The whole key to really learning to read body language is not only to look for clues, but also
to do subtle things to get more clues to see if youre on the right track. Every action
leads to a reaction
whether equal and opposite - is something you will find out, provided
youve learnt the art of non-verbal communication!